How can I be more romantic?

First, change the way you think. Romance is not something you can buy or get instructions for, it’s a state of mind. You want to be romantic? Think about what your partner's deepest desires are, what pleases them, what excites them, and act on it. Romance can be anything from a candle light dinner on a balcony of some hotel to cuddling up at night in each others arms while you watch a chick flick on TV. It is little unexpected expressions of love, affection and caring, done purely for the pleasure of your partner. The main goal of romance is not sex, it is drawing you and your partner closer.